Oh, I know maturing usually hurts, but it's not optional for believers. Maturing involves transition and movement, which is uncomfortable. I've yet to understand why Christians so frequently use phrases like, "I'm not comfortable with that." Since when did anything involving the Christian life have the word comfort associated with it. The only thing I can think to say in response is, Jesus Christ of Nazareth was not comfortable hanging on The Cross, but He stayed because He choose to operate in maturity. Now, want you pay it forward, maturity that is.